can i have advice:

my relationship is gone down the toilet after I found out I'm pregnant and i'm sad and i'm crying he is not communicating yes i take in mind that he is sick but why does he go so far to become hurtful i don't want to risk my baby I don't know what to do and yes this is the babies father :(

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    02/07/14
    8Theresa Gould
    Is he just in shock over the pregnancy? How far along are you again?
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    02/07/14
    I'm in my 6th week now, I don't know he never communicates with me more then 5 10 minutes and when I ask he all of a sudden stops talking and doesn't act interested :(
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    02/07/14
    8Theresa Gould
    I am so sorry. Maybe give him some space and let him adjust? Everyone is different in how they react and handle things. Did he act like this before you knew you were pregnant?
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    02/08/14
    I mean he was always sarcastic it just seems though he is pushing everything away so yeah
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      02/07/14
      Amber Bradley
      Sorry, im not sure :( I waited until my husband wanted a baby to get pregnant so we could avoid this.
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      02/07/14
      we didn't plan this it was so unexpected ;( and i wish that i knew that this would happen because I really don't want to hurt my baby i would rather lose the relationship for right now then have the baby have problems i don't know whats going on when i get sad or stressed i know that it makes things complicated but how he is acting isn't easy for either of us its causing more problems
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        02/07/14
        Presencia Luciano
        I agree with the other ladies. Your baby is the most important thing right now. What you feel the baby feels. So if you are stressing then it affects your baby. Give him time, if he wants to be a part of his baby's life then he will come around.
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          02/08/14
          he is distant and well he is just being rude with some comments and its joking but yeah i explained to him last night sometimes how he is acting hurts my feeling and i know that we didn't plan this and i know alot of things that we did plan are not going accordingly and yeah
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