I have to sons, 7yr old and 3 month old. Never married, but the father of the 3 month old and I are living together which has been now going on 7 months and has been an adventure along the way. We are looking to not living to together in about a month. Sorry to say but I'm looking forward to this. I feel the less stress the better my health. All I can say is my kids keep me up and going. I love them for that.