Ways to rekindle a relationship...

Im going through a rough patch with my husband... I want to make things more the way things used to be. Some advice would be nice please

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    02/10/14
    8Theresa Gould
    Have you tried planning something he really enjoys or you use to do together? What about putting the girls to bed really early and have a special meal prepared for him when he gets home, assuming you are a SAHM or get home before him?
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      02/10/14
      since you have such a young baby i'm sure things are stressful. as you both know it doesnt last forever! if you feel comfortable with it leave your kids with grandma for the night, you and your husband can go to dinner or stay in and both get a good nights sleep! but its all in the little things. help each other out when you can with chores or with the baby. wear a cute outfit and take time on your hair or makeup. cook a favorite meal. write him a love note. valentines day is coming right up. that could be the perfect nite!
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        02/10/14
        Margaret hernandez
        thing will never be them same with little one. you need to remember why you love each other make time for him...I now you have a lot on your plate with your kids...but man need their wife in more ways then one. ..when your kids are a sleep ask him how is your day what you been up to..even if you dont care just hear him...or if he is a touchy kind guy...give him a kiss hold his hand or some thing to that..he might just fill you dont wont him...even tho you need him....
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          02/10/14
          Amber Bradley
          I know how hard it is with a tiny baby to stay so completely attracted to each other, Try to take time and do little things that you bot love. Just make sure you take time for each other! Like Hazel said put on make up, or do your hair, or dress up to keep the passion going.
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            02/10/14
            One thing that helped me was to stop trying to make things the way they were before. It frustrated me and was upsetting. Once I realized that that portion of our relationship was over and it was a new phase, I was able to let go of some expectations and this disappointment.
            Doing things together.. Even household chores, bedtime, cooking and going out if we could was the best way
            When I felt we were partners in crime and the home and baby stuff was US doing it, I felt closer and more attracted to him.
            Also the better I felt about myself the more amorous I was towards him
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            I am almost twenty, my husband and I have two beautiful daughters: BrookLynne (1yr) and IzzaBella (2mo).