Are you looking for a man if you're a single mom

If you are a single mom, it does not mean that you do not need a man. First, the child must grow in an intact family, especially a boy, he needs a father. Second, happy mom - happy child. Third, the need for sex has not been canceled (as far as I know, when women do not have sex for a long time, it has not good effect on her health.) Of course, I understand that the older a woman is, the harder to find a suitable man and it's not because the woman is not attractive, but because each date is more like an interview. Of course, the first thing I would note is that how my child gets along with my man.

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    My mom divorced my dad when my daughter was almost 1 and my mom still made sure my sister, and I was okay with her new boyfriend and now husband. We told her that as long as she was happy we were happy but she wanted to be sure we got along with him because and I quote "even though my babies are grown and have their own families we come as a package deal".
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      I am a happily divorced and single mother. I don't "need" a man... or a boyfriend or anything of the sort.. But I understand what you're saying.. My kids NEED a strong male adult influence and presence in their lives.. Their dad lives in NY and they have a great and strong relationship with him.. as much as they can anyway..

      I have a STRICT RULE... And have since I've been divorced... both their dad and I agreed very early on that NO ONE meets the kids unless it becomes serious.. I thought it unfair for my kids to meet a guy or a girl that we were dating.. and then if it didn't work out, then... well.. that sucks for the kids too...

      I have been divorced for over 5 years... I have dated lightly and have had two semi serious relationships and my kids have not met ANY of them... They know my BF now.. but only cause he's been my great friend for 18 years.. and they only know him as a friend of mine...

      Their dad got re-married in May and had dated her for over a year before the kids met her..

      I am the mom and the dad.. my time with my kids belong to them... there hasn't been anyone that I want to bring into that yet, because it changes things... and For me personally... I have very little interest ever getting married again.. and little to NO interest sharing a home and "that" sort of life with anyone... yet... I'm very happy... would I love to find a great man? Hells yes... But, it's okay if I don't.. My kids are happy and well rounded and love their dad and love my male friends...
      Ideally... sure.. their dad should be here.. but he's not and we do our best...

      AS for me... you never know what's happening... I'm very lucky to have a very happy divorced relationship with their dad... We are friendly just enough that we can be friends when needed and yet not IN the others life...

      My kids come first. always.. any man that comes into our world will have to not only respect that, but admire it and honor it. I've been a step mom and that's hard... so I feel I can be very sensitive to their position, but never at the cost of my kids happiness and contentment...
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