For 33 yrs old mom - my advice is to have a baby right now. Too old enough to wait...
For natural birth to deliver a baby you may have 'Hard labor' because of old age
I knew several friends of mine they tried controlling themselves not to have children yet but they are over 30 yrs old already. After a couple of years they wanted to have kids and they had issues with their pregnancies. Most of them as I said earlier they labored too long so they resulted to via 'caesarian delivery'.
I think it's a case by case basis.. I've heard women having babies in their 40's and being perfectly fine and healthy and then people having babies in their 20's having a slew of issues.. Your chances increase tremendously when you're over 40 and after 35 your risks increase so much.. I had my first at 34 and my second at 36.. no problems with the pregnancy, the 2nd one wasn't nearly as easy though physically.. but all went well..
It really depends upon an individual. I agree with you. That's a good point. I just thought that personally for me better to have have kids sooner that's how I feel only.
If you are ready to have a baby now, then do so. If you are not ready, just wait. I just had my first one 4 months before I turned 33. In a few years when I will be ready for the next one, I know there might be additional complications with my age, though that won't stop me! You need to be emotionally and physically ready for the changes a baby brings!
In that case yes I agree with you too, another very good point.
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No experienced at all handling a child with ADHD. But I think I would give my ADHD child a discipline at home like what I did to my other kids. Show him/her the right thing to do to be a good person. All the basics about good manners and right conduct.
At least 9 yrs old but I had to check first what he/she got inside and that evrything was fine around the bath room.
I did not do that to my 2 girls I just dressed them nicely during their birthdays, Christmas & parties.
My eldest was good in numbers just 3 yrs old she could write 1- 100. In high school she was awarded as Best in Mathematics from 1st yr to 4th yr.