Im really not sure

My friends here in town kept telling me when I was pregnant not to have more kids. They said as hard as I try I will never love my second child as much as Brynlee. I feel like i love them the same, but will this fade? Now they are telling me I will love my biological children over Bristol! Im pretty sure they are wacko. These single child California moms are out of their minds!!

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Amber BradleyRedding, California
    02/11/14
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    02/12/14
    Amber Bradley
    This is true, I just needed reissuance! I have met Bristol 1 time and feel like she is my own! Thanks friend!
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    02/12/14
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    02/12/14
    Amber Bradley
    Im crying, Im such a sob. Thank you seriously!
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      02/12/14
      7Kimberly Acord
      They have lost their everlovin' minds! I have 5 biological, and I can tell you I love each of them just the same, and I love both of my stepkids just like they were mine. I may not be their mommy by blood, but I still love them the same. Mommy hearts expand to fit as many children as need be into that space. I have friends of my kids who call me mom, and know if they need me, they can come to me, call me, whatever, and I will be there. There is no limit on love, and saying you will love your biological children over Bristol is crazy. You already love her, you can tell. There are not degrees of mommy love. Tell them to stick to pets, you'll do what you do best....loving your kids!
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      02/12/14
      Amber Bradley
      Thank you so much! I really needed to hear that. Only a few more days until I can put that love to the test.
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        02/12/14
        7Kimberly Acord
        Trust me, it isn't a test you will fail. I worried so much when I was pregnant with my Jaiden that I would not have enough of me to go around. That she would feel less cared for, or that I would care less for her because I had the other four. The moment she was in my arms, I fell head over heels in love with her. Just as completely as I had with the others. My stepson is 15, so it was a little different with him...but my stepdaughter is 3 months younger than my Rosalea. I was worried about how that would go also...but the first time I was around her, she crawled up in my lap, and straight into my heart. I would do anything for those two. The only problems my SD and I have had was when her mother (who has issues) started telling her that she couldn't love me or her daddy because it would hurt her mommy's feelings. GRRRR. But now that the mom knows we can tell when she is doing that junk and we have court coming up, she isn't doing it. Don't doubt yourself. Mommies are made to love.
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        02/12/14
        Amber Bradley
        Mommies are made to love. I am going to write that down. Thank you Kimberly.
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          02/12/14
          Love never fades and you can love Bristol just as much!!!! Maybe they have sat in the sun too long!
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          About Amber Bradley
          Current: Redding, California
          Birth: July 01
          On Moms.com since: Jan 26, 2014
          I am 26, have 3 amazing kids. I have been married to my High School sweetheart for 4 years! We live in Redding, CA. My husband is a doctor and I am a certified midwife, but gave it up to stay home with my babies :)