Fine i deleted the natural birth post, hope your all happy. I joined this site to share opinions and meet moms and all I can do is be criticized and have several people send me nasty messages afterword? You people need Jesus in your lives (who, by the way was born naturally)
We are all here for support and opinions no matter WHAT those may be. I have enjoyed this site tremendously but if our opinions are not going to be valued especially when they are based on FACT I don't think I want to be on this site much longer. I am not happy with what I read especially from our own hostess.'
Whatever happened ... it goes against everything we try to do.. there's a way to say , hey that's not for me.. but good for you.. everyone can get defensive and offensive in a moments notice.. and that's just not what it's about...
Were you celebrating your natural birth or were you advocating it, leading moms to feel they needed to defend their "UN natural" birth..? Maybe you did without really knowing it..
I can preach about how great it was for me to have an epidural... and it was .. I'm pro epidural as it made the experience and whole 18 hours not awful and I was able to be present and not escape into mind over pain mode...
But that's ME... Maybe I'm wimpy.. Maybe I'm stronger..
Who... cares.... Lets all support and love one another.. period. I'm sorry if you felt bashed.. wish I were there