The only time my husband and I really argue is over how we parent our son. I have my way of doing things and he has his. When our son cries I want o pick him up and comfort him but he says I'm ruining him and am starting to spoil him. We have him sleeping in a bassinet beside the bed in our room and when Jr starts to cry at night he says "if he was in his crib in his room this wouldn't happen". How do I handle this without fighting with my husband?