All the females in my family have waited to find out what they were having. My husband wanted to find out what we were having, but I told for at least the first one I wanted to wait. It was hard waiting, especially towards the end. And it is hard, not impossible, but hard to find gender neutral items. However, I am so glad we waited. It was exciting because people were placing bets on dob, length, weight and gender. Most people thought I was having a boy. And when the doctor announced it was a girl, the look on everyone's face was priceless.