Weren't trying, weren't preventing.
I stopped my birth control on purpose, and I was tracking my cycle, so I knew when the chances were good, but we did not try to hit my ovulation days.
I suppose there's too much intent to make my pregancy accidental, but it didn't feel planned, either. So if there's a middle ground, that's us.
I think that our bodies relaxing a bit takes stress out. Even stress we aren't aware is there. U know like " thinking about NOT thinking about it"..
I feel lucky it was that way. My heart breaks for the women that want it SO badly but aren't pregnant yet.