Weren't trying, weren't preventing.

I stopped my birth control on purpose, and I was tracking my cycle, so I knew when the chances were good, but we did not try to hit my ovulation days.

I suppose there's too much intent to make my pregancy accidental, but it didn't feel planned, either. So if there's a middle ground, that's us.

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    8Theresa Gould
    When we got pregnant with our first it was on purpose as we were doing nothing to prevent it at that point in time.
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      02/21/14
      Same!! We calked it "pulling the goalie" and let it just happen... Or not .. And it happened both times quickly.

      I think that our bodies relaxing a bit takes stress out. Even stress we aren't aware is there. U know like " thinking about NOT thinking about it"..

      I feel lucky it was that way. My heart breaks for the women that want it SO badly but aren't pregnant yet.
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