planning on another baby

i had a miscarriage in novemeber and it has been so hard for my husband and i we keep seeing people getting pregnant and its like wow some people can get pregnant so easily. We have a daughter but now that shes growing up so fast we want another one so bad im just afraid for it to happen again. i know it affects my husband he just doesnt try to show it and we would have been close to finding out the gender and im so tired of people saying its not the right time your time will come and plus your daughter is a handful anyway.

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          I'm sorry for your loss. I know how you feel for sure, in the same situation, though my loss was about a year a go this past thanksgiving. I don't understand it all and I don't really understand how some struggle so much and others don't at all, not to mention those that shouldn't have kids seem to have them with no problem. Its normal to feel the way you feel, its ok its healthy but just try to not let is consume you, is all. Speaking for myself that is hard to do because I still question things and have some guilt as well but also realizing that things happen for reason and we may not know that reason but there is a reason for it. Hugs to you and I wish you the best, we are still trying with no success our selves but we have hope and faith, so we shall see what happens, life sometimes takes us in different directions.
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          About virginia gibson
          Current: Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
          Birth: December 03
          On Moms.com since: Feb 23, 2014
          currently planning for another baby but its not that easy