stay or go

Okay I feel that I can share this with you ladies.......me and my husband have been on this rocky road for 5 years now and during those five years we both were not faithful to one another I am 25 he is 27 we have been together since 2004 married in 2008 and while married we lost connection with each other I tried my hardest to gain that love back and he pushed me away and I finally gave up thinking that he did care anymore.....since this year began he is trying to change but i'm not wanting the change cause he is trying to fight for our love back and I already gave up and ready to go our ways and he is not accepting that I do not want a divorce just time apart from eachother PLEASE HELP!

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Epiffany endressAshtabula, Ohio
    02/27/14
    4Katie
    I agree that you should look into counseling. I think it is very important for you both to communicate your needs and feelings with each other. It is really hard when each of you wants something different. Hopefully a counselor can help you come up with a plan on what steps to take next. Good luck and hugs to you!
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      02/27/14
      Epiffany endress
      Yes we have tired counseling in the past just does not work for us he doesn't hit me at all I do love him very much and yes I know I am pushing him to the side I do feel bad for that but then the other side of me is like he did it to you in the past.....I am learning not to live in the past cause it just hurts your future so much maybe I will try counseling and see from there I have a lot of issues that I have to work out myself to make us better if I decide to stay
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      02/27/14
      4Katie
      Have you each tried going to counseling on your own to discuss your own personal issues? Couples counseling is good but individual counseling is very important too.

      You really need to dig down deep inside you and decide what you want and come up with a plan. Hugs!
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      02/28/14
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      02/28/14
      Epiffany endress
      we are going to counseling march 18th and we are going to take it from there if you ladies don't mind I would like to keep you guys updated as to how things are going.
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      02/28/14
      4Katie
      Please keep us updated. I hope everything turns out for the best.
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      About Epiffany endress
      Born: Chicago, Illinois
      Current: Ashtabula, Ohio
      Birth: October 25
      On Moms.com since: Feb 23, 2014
      I am 25 years old I have three children maki braylon Ciara married for 5 years I am an outgoing person love to dance and sing and spend time with the family and friends just ask anything and I may tell you :)