Can spark still be in my marriage?
i haven't been married that long and it has been rocky ever since how do you keep that spark their with all the stress going on.
no i havent read it but i will have to soon.
yea my husband barely wants to talk period and i buy lingerie and do all that it just seems like the game to him is more important.
yea we just started having date nights again we never could find a babysitter but sometimes i feel like i do all the work to make this marriage work and sometimes when i talk to him he gets mad at how i feel i guess sometimes he feels like there is nothing wrong at all.
he is 21 and i know he has had a pretty rough life and i know its a big change from his past life but it is time to grow up. we rushed into everything we have been together for almost 3 years and married for 1yr but i dont see myself with anybody else.
My husband was 28 when we got married and I can't say when he officially "grew up" but it took awhile for him to get out of his bachelor funk. The thing is there is no magic formula and you cannot force someone to grow up faster than they are ready. If you cannot see yourself with anyone else, then you will have to be patient while he grows up. That's what we do. We accept our partners for who they are and do not try to change them into something they are not or are not ready to be.
thank u theresa for ur advice
Sorry mommy! The first year is the hardest, it's when you guys have to bind through the crappy stuff. Take heart things will turn up!