Can spark still be in my marriage?

i haven't been married that long and it has been rocky ever since how do you keep that spark their with all the stress going on.

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        02/28/14
        8Theresa Gould
        Sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time. Can you try to suggest a date night to your husband so you can talk at least about how you are feeling? Can you surprise him with a special dinner or evening just for the two of you when there isn't a game on?
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        02/28/14
        8Theresa Gould
        May I ask how old he is? The reason I ask is sometimes, *sometimes* men take longer to grow up when it comes to relationships and being a husband, father. And I say that hesitantly, not knowing your whole situation.
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        03/04/14
        8Theresa Gould
        My husband was 28 when we got married and I can't say when he officially "grew up" but it took awhile for him to get out of his bachelor funk. The thing is there is no magic formula and you cannot force someone to grow up faster than they are ready. If you cannot see yourself with anyone else, then you will have to be patient while he grows up. That's what we do. We accept our partners for who they are and do not try to change them into something they are not or are not ready to be.
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        currently planning for another baby but its not that easy