Should i have a baby shower? i will b having my 3rd child and its a girl and idk if i should have a baby shower?
Why not you're celebrating a new little life.
I have seen people have "baby sprinkles" which is like a baby shower but less on the gifts, you don't register, and tell folks just to bring diapers or wipes, maybe some cloths small things but since you most likely already have all the major stuff you don't want people to feel obligated to bring a gift.
You can call it "New Baby Celebration" rathe than shower.. If you need gifts or items let people know OR ask for books or donations or donated time to hold the new baby while you care for the first two...
I would if that what you wanted. But, if you think you don't need anything. Just have a small get together and ask to people to bring diapers and wipes, or other small things that you may need.