Planning 1st Birthday Party

I want all of my kids to have special first birthday parties. I know, it seems silly because they wont remember it, but I guess I'm just one of "those" moms, LOL. The problem I'm having though, is that my daughter's baby brother is due to be born just 1.5 weeks before her birthday, and I'm not sure how to plan around that. And would it be easier to have it before or after her brother is born? During my step daughters 3rd birthday, it was hard for everyone to enjoy it because my daughter was crying the whole time. I would hate for that to happen again :/

VickyPhenix City, Alabama
    Maybe. I'm just not sure how much time I need to give myself to get it all put together. Develen is due on April 12th, and her birthday is April 22nd
    About Vicky
    Born: Apollo Beach, Florida
    Current: Phenix City, Alabama
    Birth: August 27
    On since: Dec 13, 2013
    I am a 20 year old married, stay at home mother to 2 girls and a boy.