today is going to bed a bad day

sorry for the vent i have no one else to go to...... my car broke down this morning and the transmission is blown just great fml...... i was lucky that a lady stopped and help me take my kids to day care and came to find out her son goes to the same school as my oldest and also he is in her class. now i dont know what im going to do about a car because for one i dont have a job and 2 my parents cant afford to help me with a car... and all i have been doing is crying all morning.....

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vanessa shampDundee, Florida
    03/11/14
    Breathe.. it's okay.. Everything is manageable...

    First.. how come you don't have a job? Your kids are in day care? If you're not working can you pull them out and save that money for a bit? are you i school? Can you change your schedule around so you can work? Do you live alone? Can your parents help you with your kids or do you have friends that you can swap time with their kids and so you can get a job?

    I know the panic you feel.. it's terrible, so cry and let it out and freak out then you gotta rally and get it together and make it happen...

    I needed a new transmission last year and it was ridiculous expensive, it ended up being cheaper for me to buy a NEW car.. with a little money down when I know that if I COULD fix the transmission then it would just be another thing a month later...There are great deals out there... rent a wreck type of places... until you can figure it out.. See if you can ride share, carpool or take the bus for a bit until you get your financial feet on the ground... But you need to find a way to work right? How do you live financially?

    it's okay.. you can do this
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      03/11/14
      vanessa shamp
      daycare my mom pays for it, its only 20 a month and i cant pull them out because its party of my case plan. and no one is hiring in polk county florida i have put tons and tons of apps in and been checking and always get the response no were not hiring but we'll keep your app on file. and there is no bus that comes out where i live and i dont have any friends my parents pays my bills and im only in florida for another 2 1/2 months hopefully i can move. its just been a long ruff 7 months
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        03/11/14
        vanessa shamp
        even though my mom didnt have the money she manage to help me get my car towed back to the house. on the bad note me and my kids had to walk where i had left my car to meet the tow guy and me and my kids are blessed to have someone give us a ride home. and they also offer to help with anything and if i need to go any where they will help.... i cant stop crying because i don't know how i will ever repay these people for helping me out i want to be strong and figure this out on my own but right not im too week to think to do anything.
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        About vanessa shamp
        Born: Holland, Michigan
        Current: Dundee, Florida
        Birth: July 09
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        I'm a single mom of 3 and going through a ruff divorce. we live in florida and hope one day move to michigan to be with family i haven't seen in years. please feel free to to ask me to know more about me.
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