i dont know.
I really think that my two year old may be autistic... and I know that I need to have him tested and I'm working on that but I'm really nervous for the end result... I don't know where my emotions are beginning and where they're ending with this situation... it's definitely affecting the relationship with my kid's dad... i really feel like sometimes mommy's are the only ones who understand another momma..
A diagnosis is tough, I have a son on the spectrum. I read a great article about this, basically you will go through the stages of grief.
Where are you at in the diagnosis stage, if you don't mind sharing?
The most important thing to remember is even if you get a diagnosis your little one is still the same person he has always been. Now you will have ways to help them meet their best potential.