What do you spend on a baby shower gift for a friend

What to spend on a friend for a baby shower gift, I always do a $20 limit but sometimes I might spend a little more or less depending on what I get for them. If I know what the gender is I can find gifts easier than if they keep the gender disclosed. I found it hard to find gender neutral gifts.

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