To make matters worse
And now I do not have a phone. I cannot make any outgoing calls or messages. I will only be updating once a week until we get our check on the third.
On a bright note, Grahm's surgery went well. He had a lot of fluid in his left ear, so there is mild bleeding. The docs said that he was probably completely deaf in that ear and that he was probably getting headaches. He should be so much better and happier now, and may start talking soon.