Do u think he hates daddy?

Vincent i swear has a grudge or hates his daddy.
He is such a mamas boy. My husband decided he wanted to step in and help me with bath time. So now he gives all kids a bath. But vincent will scream at him, i give him a bath he is happy and splashing.
My husband comes home or even on his days off will say hi and vincent screams at him and clings on to me for dear life. He wont even look at my husband when he talks to him.
He hates it when my husband changes him too.

I have been leaving him more with my husband and he has gotten better. But he still screams at him.

Whats funny any one else can look at him like his therpist and he cries a big but gets used to him and is ok within 10-15mins. But he will cry for more than an hr with hid daddy.

Why cant he be around daddy. Is it because he is so used to me taking care of him since birth he dont want anyone else to do it.

Also i swear vince is not normal. My other boys were loud and getting into trouble once they started rolling. He is very quite, not very talkaive and when he does talk is very quite. He started rolling but he stays within sight wont even attempt to go out of my sight. Other boys screamed as soon as they woke up from nap or morning to get out of the crib, vince will just talk to his blankies, or his hand or even his paci until i get him unless he is very hungry. I hope he stays this laid back and we behaved as a toddler, and if he does it will be so weird to not have a noisey trouble maker toddler and up as my other boys are very loud and cause a lot of trouble.

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Ashley
    03/25/14
    Ashley
    My husband has glasses and a gotee. But so does his therpist. And i have glasses
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      03/25/14
      Ashley
      No he doesnt have a loud voice but vincents brothers do and he cries if they get to loud for him.
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        03/25/14
        I think your husband needs to spend more time with him.. maybe not so much UP in his face.. but in the room, hanging out on the floor while he plays, reading on the couch.. kids do get used to certain people, but what concerns me as that he screams when he sees him.. Maybe it's a sensory thing? The goatee, and glasses.. I'm willing to bet it's the facial hair.. kids are weird with facial hair even if it IS their dad..

        My kids were always less than happy with ANYONE with a beard.. gramps shaved his cause he didn't want to scare his grandkids..

        What does the therapist say???? What is he in therapy for??

        Maybe let him see YOU closer to your husband? Show him that you love him and aren't afraid.. sit with him, hug him a lot, etc.
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        03/25/14
        Ashley
        He had tortacollid when he was born. So they have been working with him.

        And i dont think its a facial hair or glasses cuz i have glasses and almost everyone around him besides his brothers have glasses. As far as facial hair his theripist has a long beard, his daddy has a gotee.
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          03/25/14
          Vicky
          It could be something really strange and simple... My youngest prefers males to females, and dark colored hair to lighter colored hair. If a woman with gray/blonde hair tries to hold her, she completely freaks out, but if the woman has darker colored hair, she is more accepting, just not always because of the lack of facial hair. Not sure why she's like this, the hair color thing makes a little since to me because of her being around more dark haired people up to this point than light haired people, but the gender preference is strange to me.
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          I am 25year old stay at home mom of 3boys. I am also married.