What do you do ??

Hello, I'm A mom of two my youngest son he's 19motnths old a good lil boy i just adore him he has the most beautiful smile that lights up the room .My son badly misbehaves here at home/ out in public me and my husband are at breaking point where now were tryign to get help from the out-side world or from professionals he screams at me and his father constantly even if i give him what he wants or needs or all my attention i give him consequences when misbehaving even in public i even had a women come up to me threats of calling cps for taping my son on the hand for him hitting me across the face.Please If you mom have in input on what or how to do something that maybe i'm not doing correctly done Please Help thank you

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03/25/14
yes i have contacted his doctor seen three for his behavior with me being a stay home mom yes constantly i do give him consequences on how he acts give warnings time out sit him down telling him what he did wrong No biting that he has done i went through that with my daughter not fun at all i'm looking into therapy as well as this new sight for some type of answers
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    03/25/14
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      03/25/14
      4Allena
      Hi Suzanne.
      My son was the same but i was told that it was his age. I fought with dr's for four years to get my son the help he needed. It had gotten to the point of him verbally emotionally and physical abuse to me and the other children i have. No one look at him until something really bad happened. I am sorry you are going threw this. I for one know its hard to deal with and exceptionally not having any more doors to open. Here in rockford we have a center that helps children out with stuff like that with counselling. It is helping him quite a bit I have more better days now than Bad days. What my son has is called O.D.D. Oppositional defiant disorder is a pattern of disobedient, hostile, and defiant behavior toward authority figures. There is no medications that go with this. The doctors told me once we were seen that with out retraining the brain on how he should act, talk, and that ever action has consequences it will just get worse as they get older. If you need to talk let me know. I am here and will give you want I can.
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        03/25/14
        4Allena
        What i did with my son at home was a reward chart to help. kinda like he does something good, act the way he should, does something that you ask with out a fight give him a star. after so many (you make that up) give him something he really like tv time, a piece of candy, video games, ect. after so long of showing he can do it up the total amount of stars up so he has a higher goal. After doing this with my son for 3 months he has shown improvements on his behavioral quit a bit
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        03/25/14
        I just might do that i did a potty chart with my daughter i think that would be a great idea for my son my doc has never brought o.d.d.to my attention before so thank you for that i don't know if that's what he has or not i can't say he doesn't and can't say he does um i'm here in austin i don't know what really available to me here lol and ive been living here all my life.
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          03/25/14
          4Allena
          When we were seeking help it took us 4 years to get someone to listen to what i had to say im oping you doing have to wait that long for someone to listen to me. We started out with listening up to 5 promps anything more then that he didn't get a star, no hitting every time he made it 5 minutes with out hitting he got a star if he did he lost a star, no screaming everytime he he didn't scream for 5 minutes he got a star and if he did he lost a star for that area. After getting better at that i raised the time limit
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