YES then NO
1st one I was but I wasn't ... you know? I wasn't protecting myself & I decided that was ok that if it happened it happened. so yes... I guess I was trying. my second was conceived just a little bit after 1st. I was on birth control so I wasn't trying but I consider her my little blessing in disguise :)
My first born Jan. 31st 2013
My 2nd born Feb. 7th 2014
A YEAR APART hehe
I know what your saying there. Same thing almost...
it took us 2 years to actually conceive. We were starting to think there was something wrong with one of us. But once you have them gets easier to have them after that. For me at least it was that way.
Believe me girl I was so worried about that one. I jumped for joy when I made it through the night January 31st LMAO. I wanted them to have their own day you know? Would be good for money I guess. 1 party. haha
I think while they are younger I will do their birthdays separate. Especially for this year because 1st birthdays should be all about them I think because watching Raelynn get all that attention & how happy she was made my whole day. I wouldn't want them feeling jealous or anything. But for first few years after that I will have their parties together, but as they get older I will give them the choice. Because if they had it together I would have more money to do something. Separate would be tighter.