So I just told my husband that I'm not really that hungry and that my appetite just kinda disappeared over the past couple of days... Instead of asking why or trying to figure it out, he just says "Well if you don't eat, then you wont have any nutrition for the baby..."
I feel like I'm doing this alone.. I wake up with her at night, and he doesn't even budge.. I comfort her when she cries.. I change her diapers.. I just feel like I'm doing it all on my own!
But he's not going to know that. You need to ask for things. Even him to show love .. They just all don't know how.
But don't say things that you're hoping to get a specific answer for.. Cause it will leave u sad. And he's right. Lol. But that's a guy. You stated a problem, he gave a reason to have a solution. They're working on a totally different level than we are.
Maybe he is feeling the sudden pressure if being the sole provider for your kids. The only one. Maybe has scared too .. Guys handle it differently.. They go into man cave mode and we feel needy and want to be cared for.
Tell him!!!! Tell him how u feel!!!!! Not what he's doing wrong but what U need. I bet he hasn't a clue.
But don't get mad at him yet. Let him in first then see..
Take care of the baby and eat something. And talk to him!!!! You guys are in this together. No games. Cuddle up and talk it out!!!