..more kiddos Yes, No, Maybe?!

I think the choice to have a certain number of kiddos needs to be joint between the Mom and Dad... obviously :) But you both also need to be open to what the other wants, desires and feels like is right for your family. In my own relationship, we think about our ideal family, finances and just life as a growing family in general.. providing well for our kiddos is important to us.. and sometimes I have heard after you have "said amount" of kiddos.. you "feel" like your family is complete.. I hope this is what perhaps happens to us.. we definitely want more after Monroe.. but one at a time ;) hehe

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    03/28/14
    Beth
    Yep, We both knew for sure that we were complete after Hayden was born. Before I got pregnant with her, my husband and I talked about our family. We both knew we weren't done. I knew I hated being pregnant... and he knew how much I disliked it. I told him before we got pregnant, that I either wanted to have one more baby now, or wait a few more years (until Audrey was 4-5) and have 2 more. Once Hayden was born we both knew we were for sure done. Neither one of us have looked back or gotten baby fever or anything since ;)
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    03/28/14
    4Rina
    You can't have baby fever when you still have a baby! Just wait a few years :-)
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      03/28/14
      8Theresa Gould
      Yeah it just kind of happened for us after our last child, but I know we are not the norm. Ha!
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        03/28/14
        We want more!!! I want a girl next and if we get her, then I'm done. But if it's another boy, then I'll try one more time. And if I get 3 boys, the screw it, I wasn't meant to have a girl haha. 3 is my and my boyfriend's magic number. He does have a step-daughter though, so technically we might have 4, but that's alright with me. :) I love big families!
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