I hope this works

So i am trying a new method for Haiden and logan for behavior. I just hope it works.
In the past i have and still do timeouts, tried spankings, removal of toys or games, early bed time, rewards. But nothing works they still dont listen or they will listen until they get the reward and then its back to fighting, hitting, not listening.
Well haidens school does good time tickets. And if the child is good all day at school they get to check off the behavior and they get a good time ticket. At the end of the week the kids with good time tickets get to pick something out of a prize box. And this method must work cuz haiden always gets a good time ticket.

Well yesterday i went to the dollar store. I found a box and some good time award tickets. I bought them.
In order for the kids to get their good time ticket in a box they have to listen to me at all times, eat nice not throw food all over, clean up after themselves, not run in the house, no arguing or fighting every half hr, share toys, stay in bed until alarms go off. Basically have to behave and get along all day. If they behave all day they get to get a good time ticket. If they get 5 tickets one for every day i would take them to the dollar store or walmart and they can get a new toy or a special treat like a happy meal.

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Ashley
    03/31/14
    Ashley
    Oh and if they act up after they get the reward i will remove the toy for the day.
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      03/31/14
      Ashley
      I will. I am just sick of those two hitting, bitting, kicking each other, sick of them running in the house when vince now moves around, sick of them
      Making a mess but when i ask to clean up they run away. Sick of being screamed at by them.
      I just cant find what works so i am
      Constantly trying to find something. I give it a month and it fails me.
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      03/31/14
      Ashley
      Well i had to naughty kids that they think they rule everything.
      But vincent my soon to be 7months old little boy is very opposite. He is very quite and sensitve. He is too good i sometimes joke that he is not normal or i even joke saying that the other women next to me who gave birth a few mins after i did has my baby and i have hers.
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      03/31/14
      Ashley
      Thanks i like that reward too
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        03/31/14
        8Theresa Gould
        It's a great idea. Not to be a Debbi Downer, but I'd just caution you towards expecting perfection or else they won't feel like they cannot earn a reward ticket.
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        I am 25year old stay at home mom of 3boys. I am also married.