Any ideas

So the last few months when haiden does something wrong like bitting his brother or name calling, refusal of homework he blames two people in his class a girl named danica and boy named issiah. He doesnt blame them until i have a heart to heart talk on why he would do that behavior and he always says well danica or issiah does it.

Example tonight he called logan stupid, dumb, retarded. I sent him to his room and told him no video games, told his dad and his dad made him write the words. Then as i was reading to vincent i heard screaming and then crying and then heard my husband say timeout haiden for bitting logan. Instead of a bed time story i talked with haiden and asked why he said the mean words then bit logan. He said dani (danica) and issiah does it. But when i ask him why he blames those two for his behavior he says because and wont tell me.

So tommorow i am going to talk to his teacher, and guidance counsler and explain this to them. Cuz nothing is his fault its alwayd danica and issiah.

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Ashley
    04/03/14
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    04/03/14
    Ashley
    He knows he is 6. Plus i did it back at him once and i said ouch.
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      04/03/14
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      04/03/14
      Ashley
      I dont know. But blaming two kids out of his class for everything naughty when those kids are not here at home after school
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        04/03/14
        He's 6???? Oh yeah.. You gotta take care of this in a big way.. HUGE consequence.. remind him no one makes him do anything and tell him that if they did, then they must be stronger than he is.. Because standing up for what's right is stronger.. ask him if he wants to be a leader or a follower.. and then initiate severe consequences... take things away.. tell him it's wrong..
        my daughter just turned 7 and she would understand totally all the things I mentioned.. they get it. they know..
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          04/03/14
          Ashley
          Plus my husabd says dont mention it to school. Let him talk to haiden.
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