my friend told me she is pregnant again last night. She was on the mini pill and has a 9 month old and was obviously not trying or ready for another. Now it looks like she will have 2 under 2. I know everything will work out for her and she will be excited to have another, but I can sympathize with her feelings. Her first was unexpected too and she feels like she was just getting into the swing of things with her son. I personally am not ready for another baby right now and if I were to become pregnant now unexpectedly I don't think I would be that happy at first.
Have any of you gotten pregnant unexpected, or at a time that wasn't the best? How did you react? When did you find the excitement again?
I...reacted badly at first, and it took a long time to get excited about it.