Who have you chosen to be there?
God forbid anything happens.. who have you chosen to take over for you? How did you decide?
Both mine and Charlie's dad's siblings all have families. I know any one of them would be there if Charlie needed them, but if something were to happen to us, I couldn't handle Charlie trying to find his place in a new family.
Charlie's Godparents, (my bf has known them for 30 years), would take Charlie. They don't have children of their own.. the dogs are their kids and those are definitely my kind of people.