Stubborn me or insecure me???

Hello ladies. Well my husband has this old ass female friend right. You can say she's a friend with benefits. She gives him money for whatever reason. He drives her and her friends around, goes to parties with her. The killer part about it, SHE'S EFIN MARRIED!!! Her and her husband don't do nothing but argue all the time. Sometimes I feel that he would rather spend quality time with her and not me. He has intercourse with me though. My kids daddy says he loves me and only me and that he doesn't have time to be starting over with nobody else. What do you think???

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04/05/14
Like when she drops him off, he calls her to make sure she get home safe. He barely did that for me when I had to be at work on midnights or any other time.
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    04/04/14
    Try talking to him about it and tell him how you feel. It could be a little of both, stubborn and insecure, but I'd do the same thing. If it were me, I'd definitely tell him how I feel and ask him to stop seeing her or see her a lot less or something. My boyfriend and I talk everything out. communication is key.
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    04/05/14
    I do, but he doesn't seem to think the little things that piss me off mean anything. I'm overreacting or something like that.
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      04/05/14
      Bre
      If it was me I would have been gone by now.. That's to much drama for me. I don't play any of that shit when it comes to another woman stepping in the way. If I truly have a gut feeling about something it gets said and im sneaky ill find out what I need to know, no matter what I gotta do. Women have gut instincts.. don't be scared to do what you have to, to be happy sweetheart.
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      04/05/14
      It seems to me that I'm looking for something that's not really there. It may not be nothing. Maybe I'm looking for something way to hard and can't find nothing.
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      04/05/14
      Bre
      Seems fishy to me. I would really think about if you are happy with this man or not. Give it some hard thought. If you not happy with them then you should go out and find someone that makes you happy. If he cared about your feelings toward a sensitive thing like this he would stop what he is doing. Im sure he would have a problem with it if the tables were turned
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        04/05/14
        Maybe there's nothing there. I would've been found something if it was anything to find. Like most men they know how to cover their tracks. I think I'm investing way to much time in this. I keep thinking about the past too and that's not good either.
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          04/05/14
          If she's much older than he is, could it maybe be a maternal kind of relationship? Like he's worried about her like he would worry about a parent or older aunt? Trying to be optimistic!
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