What defines you as a parent?
If I had to choose one word to define my parenting style, it would be: instinctual.
I don't follow advice from others (in general), I just do whatever feels right to us for our family. It was gut feelings that led us to cosleeping, babywearing, breastfeeding, and clothdiapering. All of those things are parenting styles that people say define me, but the truth is they all stem from my insticts and making choices based on them :)