she's making me feel like a bad mother
My mother in law gets drunk and says the most horrible things I can imagine. She says all she heard it's the baby cry when she's with me, which is not true, she only cries when she's hungry and mad that I don't hurry with her food.
Last night a friend came over and was holding the baby, she walked her and put her to sleep.My mother in law insisted that she hand her the baby, hesitantly she did and then told my husband she shouldn't have to go get her. He went and she threw a fit.She was drunk. She said that I'm on my phone all day if he ever wonders who I talk to, I have no friends now. She said she was gonna take the baby from us and call social services. All because she says we're keeping the baby from her. Am I wrong to not want her holding my baby breathing on my baby when she's drunk? I don't trust her babysitting my daughter. The other day she was about to start drinking while babysitting her when my husband got home.
Sorry it's king and depressing I just have no one to talk to
She seems irrational.. I would lessen the amount of time she's there and around.. and have your husband talk to her.. and deal with it.. it's his mom..
Your home, your baby, your rules..