Hi fellow mom's...I have been struggling for the past few days with a situation that I just don't know how to move forward from.. My sister-in-law was just married in Jamaica and of course all of the family was invited....my husband and I decided we would go and my mother offered to watch our twins...the problem?? WELL....my husbands aunt decided to put the bug in his ear that she would never be able to leave her babies behind and get on a plane...so guess what happened....yup that's right you know who didn't get to go on this lovely brief vacation but my husband of course did since it was his sister that was getting married. To say that I was furious, crushed and hurt to the max because I feel like my feelings and my SANITY was completely ignored...Even thought the trip was only 2 1/2 days what a great break that would have been for me....to have some alone time with my husband in a romantic resort and also to have some much needed adult time to have a few drinks and enjoy the party...needless to say we had a huge blowout the other night and of course he repeated several times that he was sorry and begged for me forgive him...I want to I really do but every time I see a picture of the wedding on facebook especially one of my husband smiling enjoying himself it makes me so mad I have chest pains. I just don't know what to do I feel like this is going to consume me.
Also, if your husbands aunt did this intentionally I would keep my distance. But if it just came up in conversation with your mother in law that's a different story all together.