I think that's up to the momma and baby. I planned on breastfeeding a year but had to stop at 10 months.
Definitely a personal decision... and remember you can always pump for an older child even if you do not want them at the breast!
I agree, definitely a personal decision. For example, if I was able to breastfeed, I would've maybe stopped at 2 or 3 pumping and stopped at the breast at about 1. I had to stop pumping at 2 weeks for lack of supply. -_-
I totally agree, you have to do what works for both of you. It's good to know when it isn't working out for you or the baby.