So last night, my husband was in a very bad mood. I think part of it is becasue he is working 7:30 - 4 instead of his normal 8:30 - 5 since he is covering for someone on vacation. He is not a morning person, so getting up at 6 is a challenge for him. He has been going to bed at about the same time as me (I get up at 4:30) and is getting more sleep than me, so I don't know why he is crabby!
Kailtyn would cry every time he tried to hold her, so he would hand back to me so I could not get anything done. I think it's because she could sense he was not happy, though he did not want to believe that. He decided to leave and go to Menards when I was getting her ready for bed. Not sure when he got home or when he came to bed, since I got to bed my 8:30. It was so nice to get an extra 45 minutes of sleep. Hopefully he is in a better mood tonight especially since I did not get anything done last night and he did not help with things, so there is a lot to do!
Maybe try to flip this and reach out to him with a nice text.. telling him you know how hard he's working and anything you can do to help.. - as much as you probably want to smack him instead and shut down try to do the opposite and it can help..