My younger brother is trying to ruin my life.
I'll try to keep this short, and I'm not sure if this is really the right place for this but here is goes anyway.
My younger brother and I have never really gotten along. We fought like crazy people as children and have kept our distance from each other in adulthood. The issue is, he lives with my mother and about 2 years ago my husband, son and I moved in too. My mom owns a guest ranch and was needing more help since my step-dad passed away. During the time we were living there, we never spoke. We pretty much ignored each other, every now and then he would mess with one of my vehicles or do something to intentionally make my husband angry.
One day my husband and brother got not a argument and my mother told us we had to find another place to live and my husband is only allowed to come around when my brother isn't home. Which has made life kinda stressful but tolerable. Now my POS brother is trying to get me banned as well. I normally would just say fine and move far enough away from him I don't have to deal with it anymore, but (besides giving him exactly what he wants) I started a horseback riding business out of the ranch and it kinda impossible to do it without a ranch and horses. I don't know how to talk to my mom about this. She pretty much chooses to ignore his behavior and give in to his demands. She has told me before she's afraid to kick him out because he will burn the house down. I told her get a restraining order. He really controls moms life and now is controlling mine. As a mom myself I know it must be painful for her to be in the middle of us. And listen to him complain about me all the time but how can I make her see that it is unhealthy for him to be there controlling her and her property like he owns it? Sorry this was so long, I'm stressing pretty hard.
No one should live like that.
Maybe you can just be there for your lessons? And he can be gone then?
Moms won't kick their kids out. It's sad but moms will take so much.
It's between you and your brother.
Go to him and try to work it out. Reach him on the same level.