Please dont be mad

So ladies i vent a lot when i fail or my sons are not listening or just plain bad day.
The last mom site i was on i would vent or say one thing and i didnt get postive feed back i got negative feed back or make me feel worse. Sometime they even said i was a bad mom and shouldnt of had kids or saying i was to mean, and my kids deserve better.
I know some of thr behavior they have is my fault cuz i let them walk all over me and did open threats.
I learned now and its still hard for me to not do what i say and i still catch myself doing it.
All i need is help and postive feed back.

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Ashley
    04/22/14
    Ashley
    And so far this site has been wonderful so thank u.
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      04/22/14
      Ashley
      So far i have not but since that site ladies i am afraid if i vent i will get what i got on there.
      But its amazing i love this site, u ladies are all so understanding
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        04/22/14
        It's good to vent, you'll feel better and be able to reassess your situation. Sounds like boys being boys, just take a break, most of the time its an attention issue try to walk away and let them know it's not okay to act that way. Do you do the time out chair? Set them there for however old they are in minutes: 7yo = 7min.
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        04/22/14
        Ashley
        I have not yet, but that was a previous expirence i had. I lovr these ladies better, and so far i have had a great expirence
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        About Ashley
        Birth: March 23
        On Moms.com since: Mar 6, 2014
        I am 25year old stay at home mom of 3boys. I am also married.