Dominant or Submissive?

No, I don't mean sexually, lol. Although that could be part of the answer if you choose to include it!

The question is, do you think your personality is more dominant or more submissive?

I know mine is more dominant. Because I know this I am very mindful of other peoples feelings. But my go to reaction in everything life throw at me is a dominant one.

How about you ladies?

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    04/23/14
    Hmmm... I think that I'm a bit of both.. I'm super easy going, but have zero problem with sticking up for someone or what I think is right and fair.. I think I come across stronger and more dominant than I actually am.. I'm pretty friendly and out going and make jokes a lot and can be mistaken for a dominant person when in reality I'm really very gooey... lol
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      04/23/14
      I used to be almost completely submissive. I never took the lead in anything, or brought attention to myself even if I had done something deserving of it. I would stick up for others, no problem, but I was very shy, very hidden, and very much into not drawing attention to myself.

      Over the past year, though, I've become more dominant. I take charge in situations where someone needs to and no one wants to. I stick up for others even more, I go off and do things on my own. If something needs to be done, I find a way to do it. I still can hear and feel the submissive mindset, back in my thoughts, but I can't be that way anymore, I had to grow up and take charge.
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        04/23/14
        I admit it: I'm VERY dominant! My boyfriend likes to joke that I could micro manage a diaper change lol. I like for things to run smoothly and according to plan. Honestly, that was the hardest thing for me to get used to once I became a mommy. I had to learn to adhere to my baby Jaime's schedule. He didn't care that I had plans to renovate the cupboards on Thursday. He just wanted mommy to play with him. And honestly, I love it. He keeps me balanced. :)
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          04/23/14
          I am very definitely dominant! I am one of those people who just naturally gets voted to be the leader of everything I do before I even know it's happening and even if I don't want to be. Lol But because I trust my husband completely it helps me settle in to a far less dominant role...which I have to say even if it sounds terrible it is so nice after years of needing to be in control of literally everything I am able to just depend on someone else to make the right choices...aka one I would have made had I made the choice! Lol
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