What to do...

Here we go with another night of the police at our house...I know the neighbors are starting to wonder. This will be the third time in the few months. All because of my husbands ex. She has been ordered to have no communication with us but she continues and because we are in different states they don't do what they should about it...well today she somehow got on my friends list on Facebook and emailed my friends and family telling them all of our personal business. I mean we don't have anything to hide but it's still humiliating. Facebook is the only connection I have to a lot of my friends. I don't have a phone most of the time to save on expenses but it is so humiliating to have her email people all the time. I am thinking abut getting rid of my Facebook as I have already gotten rid of the last one she got on and don't even use my real name on my new one, I have every security setting you can on it...I don't want to get rid of it but I'd rather not be humiliated all the time. This is someone I have never met or spoken to...neither has anyone I know other than my husband. Would you just get rid of the Facebook to try and stop it? Or would you think that would be letting the other person have too much power?
Maybe I just needed to vent. It's hard to talk to my husband about this and how it makes me feel because I don't want him to feel guilty that we have to have this person in our lives...it's so nice to have a site like this I can talk about what we go through as moms, even if it is not the traditional things. I just want to say thank you to everyone on here, everyone is always so kind and understanding that not everything we go through in motherhood is Kodak moments and play dates at the park. It's nice to have a place to share all those other moments with people who go through the same things.

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    04/24/14
    8Theresa Gould
    I'm rather amazed at your husband's ex's boldness. You have to do what is best for you about your Facebook account. I think if I were getting harassed and my friends were too I'd be really tempted to get rid of it too.
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      04/24/14
      Oh man, We aren't married. But I have had constant girls try and break up my family. It worked once. Cause I was done. I couldn't deal with it. All we did was argue and man I couldn't do it! I don't understand why females try and get in between people. We got back together and now we are better than ever. We got rid of facebook, changed numbers, and everything. So THESE girls would leave us alone. We got rid of facebook and have twitter and instagram. I wouldn't say oh, delete your facebook bc this lady is crazy. LOL!
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        04/24/14
        I wouldn't delete your facebook. If you block her it makes her think you deleted. Don't give her NO attention. They eventually fade away. The more they affect you the more they love it. Feed off it. Believe me, my ex is the same. Good luck.✿
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          04/24/14
          Beth
          I think Val's advice is great. If you delete your facebook, she will probably just spend her time figuring out another way to get under your skin and irritate you. I would just block her and try to ignore her.
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            04/24/14
            Well, they have a child together but were never married so it makes it hard. My husband has not said two words to her in years. It's crazy. But she creates new accounts on Facebook or gets her friends to get on our pages, either that or she saved names from when she was able to get on my old Facebook which is kinda creepy. She sends me snail mail all the time too. So even if I delete it she will just send me more mail. I was just so humiliated when my mom told me she had sent my sister a message and had no one to talk to. My mom is amazing but she doesn't handle these things well. Lol
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            Stay at home wife and Mom. I have an older step son that is an amazing young man. My husband and myself have a little boy and newborn girl. Balancing life isn't always easy but it's always worth it :-)