Tonight's events went down better than I thought

So, I ended up telling both Bailey and Nick, the young man that she has been seeing that her blood work came in today and the results said she was positive for pregnancy. Bailey had a break down, she cried and swore to me that they did everything they could to prevent it. My heart broke as she sat there helpless. Nick didn't say anything but nod his head. He as well was very shocked, he even confirmed that they were taking all the precaution they could to not have this happen. Bailey is still in shock and she won't talk to me. I tried to sit down and talk to her but she started to cry again and she didn't want me to touch her. I did as she wished and walked away. She wouldn't let Nick touch her. Now, she has locked herself upstairs in her bedroom, it's been about two hours since. I feel much better than I know that they both took precaution, but I am a bit upset that she made the choice to do such things. Not everything can protect you 100%, but accidents happen I guess.

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    04/24/14
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    04/24/14
    Nick told me, after Bailey went upstairs, that he feels that he isn't ready to have kids yet that he really messed up. But, he won't leave Bailey that he will take responsibility for the consequences of having an unplanned pregnancy.
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      04/25/14
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      04/25/14
      Hunter kept trying to open Bailey's door last night. He started to cry when Bailey wouldn't let him in. Eventually she opened the door and played with him for a little bit. They both ended up falling asleep and she is still with Hunter right now
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        04/25/14
        Bailey hasn't opened up to me yet about it. I guess I'm alright, I had Bailey when I was fifteen so it's a bit of a relief that she's eighteen now and eligible to be on her own. She's talked to Nick but he hasn't given me the side of the barn he's been on yet. As for Hunter, as young as he is, sees that Bailey is a bit out of it and he's been less whiny and clingy today.
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          04/25/14
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          04/25/14
          She seemed alright today. Bailey did about her normal routine, went to school, came home, did homework, helped with Hunter. But she hasn't ate and I don't think she has slept either.
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          04/26/14
          I am sure she's just stressed out right now.

          When I got pregnant with my second child I reacted a lot like Bailey is. I was 26 and already a mother. It just broke my heart to be pregnant again, I truly didn't want to have another child. I feel bad even admitting that, but this is something people don't talk about very often. It's not uncommon to react in an upset manner, even when the world thinks you should feel blessed and happy.

          She'll be okay, momma. Just let her have time and space. Pretty soon she will be driving you crazy with baby names and wanting help picking out car seats. ;)
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