my teen hates me???
My teen hates me:-(
My mom believed I hated her. I was not always the nicest child, I never talked to her, I was rude, I was angry, I was a mess of things. Let me tell you, I did NOT hate my momma. I could NEVER and would NEVER. I think as a teen still, we say and do things bc we are angry. Is your teen having any problems at school? Or any thing like that?
I have the same issue. I have wondered why but I cannot think of a reason. However, I then think of what everyone has already told me. When they hit the teenage years they always go through a rebellious stage and will argue and fight. We just have to hold strong and not let them push to much and remember they are never to old to be sent to their room or to be grounded. I am hoping mine will get through this phase quickly but I am prepared to bein a strong and stubborn mom when she tries to push. It will be hard but we will get through this.
I am sure they really do not "hate" ...possibly a momentary severe dislike... but they will come around as Debi said hormones fluctuate and moods run rampant... they will hate you one minute but love you the next!
Thanks for all your advise. However my situation seems much deeper. She just really wants to rebell by nature and then some. I ground her take things away didn't work. We are religious people. And she wants to do the opposite if what our belief are. She wants to dress provocative. Talk to boys.and anything else you could imagine. She is home schooled for the first time thus year. Dye to her behavior in school. She don't want to live with me so she try to do things (sabotage) her staying here so she can live with my sister who isn't religious at all . so my stress level is on 20 smh.
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