My SO old friends
So the closer we get to the end of Luke's job here in New mexico the more it looks like we will be going to Colorado for his next job. Colorado is fine with me because it will be in CO Springs and his family is about an hour away from where we would be. How ever, the group of guys that he will be working with are his old friends from other jobs. I haven't meet them, but from what I have heard from stories and comment, they seem like a pretty wild group of guys, this worries me only because of the past few months we have been through, I just hope he doesn't go back to the way he acts around them and then bring it home to me, I also don't like the idea of going to the bars every weekend. I had a short discussion with him about my feelings towards it. He didn't have a lot to say. I'm just hoping things aren't going to go back wards, because at that point I would have to make the decision on what to do with our relationship.
I'm not saying to let anyone step all over you. But if it were me moving back to a place where I knew a lot of friends and I felt like I wasn't "allowed" to go hang out with them. I would resent my bf big time.
You're pregnant with his kid and you're making a decision to move far away to keep your family together. If you've chosen a good man and father, rowdy bar nights will not be an issue. Don't stress about it just yet, your baby is counting on you :)