Loss of a baby: did he go to heaven?
First of all, I am very sorry to anyone who has suffered the loss of their baby. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
I am not completely sure that I believe in heaven and God but I do firmly believe that if they do exist a baby would be in heaven. I think that God would keep those babies close and make sure they are kept safe.
Personally I believe that we all have a soul. I think our soul still exists even after we die. I think that our relatives souls will welcome our soul when we die. I am not sure where we go but I am sure that we are not alone.
I think this all depends on your beliefs. If you believe in heaven and hell, it's hard to imagine that a baby would end up anywhere in Heaven. If you are comfortable with it, I would suggest visiting a pastor at a church that follows your beliefs and talk about this issue.
If your beliefs line up more like Katie's, I know you'll be able to find plenty of people online who follow your beliefs and can comfort you in a time like this.
When I was pregnant with Avery somehow I knew deep down that it wasn't the same baby. I didn't know if she was a girl or a boy at the time, but she felt different to me then my first baby.