Is 3rd time really a charm?

We had the baby talk again and this time it is my kids fault the subject was brought up lol. My son said he wanted a little brother and of course my daughter wants a little sister. I am not sure if I want another baby.

In my mind I feel like I am doing them a disservice by bringing in another baby. I know it sounds weird. I sit and try and picture another baby, but I just cannot.

When I had my son i could see it, I could see having another baby but when I think about it now I just can't. I am not sure why, my husband keeps saying that we have to do it soon if we are going to because he is 37, but I tell him I am only 28 and I want to wait. It goes back and forth and goes no where.

Is it odd to feel this way? Does this mean that I am done having kids? For those with more than two what were your thoughts on having another?

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    8Theresa Gould
    We have eight and our children still ask for another. I think it's in most kids nature to want another sibling. I've said it before, but since our last child was born in 2010 we really haven't felt like we wanted anymore and that's a first for us. With all the others we were open to and wanted more. That's not saying we won't because we do not use birth control, except our version of natural family planning. I think only you know if you are done having children.
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      I agree with the other ladies, that only you are going to be able to decide whether or not your family is complete. I don't have much advice here, but I can say that my husband has decided we must have an even number of children. We have decided on four, but who knows where it will lead?

      Why do you feel like you are doing a disservice to your children, if you don't mind my asking?
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      Stay at home and work at home mom of two loud, crazy, adorable kids that are the center of my entire world. We all live together with the love of my life and the father of my children in sunny Florida with 3 of out four-legged kids.