A few things i want to ask.

So sorry to post again ladies. I tend to post whats on my mind. But have a few questions.
So i came up with an idea on to minimaize haiden and logans fighting. If they fight more than 5times in a day they both go to bed early. Also if one doesnt do something and blames the other to prevent the he did i didnt they give me they both get punished with a a timeout or early bed or toy taken away. It may be wrong espically if the other kid was listening but if i put both in timeout it stops an argument if the i didnt do it he did it.
Also vince is now eating a lot more of our food i make and eats on his own. Well if u touch him or get big pieces off of his bib he gets mad ad grunts at us. Is that normal?

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Ashley
    05/01/14
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    Ashley
    I would do the three strikes but haiden is at school until 3:15pm. So its morning they are together, and afternoon and night. Unless its weekend. Thats why i say 5 times. Plus there is at least 3 fights or arguments in the morning.
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      And its usually from the time they get up to the time they get to bed. I am glad haiden is in school cuz during the weekend is horrible.
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        Yea they are very compitive
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          5? yikes.. I say 3.. 3 decent ones.. they're going to bicker.. but if you say 3 is your limit and toughen up on it they will find it harder to reach 5.. Crack that WHIP! (figuratively of course not literally)..

          Treat them differently.. different charts, different rewards, different everything so that they are felling like they're individuals and watching out for themselves as well as each other.. give them things to do that they need to do ONLY with the help of the other.. be specific.. if it's take the garbage out.. one ties it, the other brings it out and vie versa the next time.. Do not tolerate them fighting.. Period.. YOUR home.. YOUR rules.. YOU'RE the boss.. They will do what they think is allowed.. whether you realize it or not.. but once they are punished for fighting, EVERY time.. they will stop.. But YOU have to stay on it.. stay on top of the.. Don't allow any back talk or hitting.. You don't even have to give them 3 or 5.. ONE.. one warning..

          My kids bicker but don't fight or brawl. The bickering is normal, but they are in NO way ever allowed to hit or say something mean or throw anything. or physically fight in ANY way.. ever.. I just don't tolerate it.. Have they ht each other? Sure.. but immediately they lose tv or games or whatever it is they love and are in their room..

          You got this.. You don't owe them any explanation.. you don't owe them ANY chances.. or warnings..
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          I am 25year old stay at home mom of 3boys. I am also married.