I am a happy medium really
I am very easy going but at the same time, they don't try to pull one over on me. I am the fun, cool mom as long as you are being good and doing good things, when they have friends over they want to stay forever lol. But at the same time if my "baby" (6 and 5 year old lol) fall I am running like a race horse over to them. If your (saying that generally) child throws a rock at my child I am going to jump up and tell you that's not nice in my "you're not my child but I want to get my point across" voice.