I cant do this anymore. Its hurting me.

I posted about my husband leaving me for 5 days. I am not staying strong at all. Anything i see including the kids makes me cry.
I have cried all day and its horrible. It feels like my heart is ripped in two. And i am barley clinging on. I know its 4 days but that 4 days is really long for me.

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05/04/14
Ashley
No he went to his friend in florida for 5days cuz his friend graduates from
College
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05/04/14
Ah ok so this is like your first time apart since you got together? I know my husband and I are dreading when he will have to go away for work with his new job. We haven't been away from each other since I moved to the USA so I understand it must be tough. But you have your kids to keep you company and there's phones and skype to keep in touch. If anything use the time to do a few special girly things just for yourself. Take some "me" time. Yes it's hard to be away from loved ones but he will be back and when he's back you can show him just how much you appreciate having him in your life.
Everything will be ok hun. And we're all here if you need to vent!
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    Ashley
    No. And i am in pain it hurts so bad.
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      Amanda Muir
      What is it that has you so upset? Try to embrace the time alone with the kids. Do fun things. Think about how nice it will be to see him when he gets back.
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      Ashley
      My husband being gone, the speration from him. We have never been apart since we married back in 08. Other than work we have not been seperated
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      Ashley
      Thats all i think about, him being back home.
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        Amanda Muir
        I understand, but the reality is that you can't change the fact that he isn't home so you have to try and cope. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Just think about how nice it will be when he gets home. The reality is that you will probably be apart again so it's good to learn how to deal with it. Just pretend he's at work ;)
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        Ashley
        The thing is if he was at work he would be home already, he would be going to bed with me and saying good night to the boys. He is going to facetime them before bed. The boys dont seem to
        Understand plus i dont think him being gone for a few days has set in yet.
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        Amanda Muir
        Facetime will be good! The boys will be ok. Just tell them he'll be home soon and try to have some fun with them!
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        I am 25year old stay at home mom of 3boys. I am also married.