The reason your hubby wants a child...
I was thinking about the reason why my husband wants to have a kid. You know, not all of man want kids, especially before they are 30... But we want more than anything. No metter he still is a kid - he want kid).
And one of my guesses is he just wants his toys back).
What about your hubby? What are theirs reasons?
The way your husband think about it means he will play with baby alot - and with joy. I hope so).
I got married at 21, 6 years ago - so al is ok with this part of my dream). But with kids...
And now I realise that my husband is still not ready for kids...
My husband was more excited to start a family than I was.. he was very eager to just create our own family.. it was super super super cute.. then I got on board with it :)
No it is not the law, it is a personal choice that we and Lucas's birth mother made. is there anything else that I can tell you? Let me know.
I'm really impressed. I dont know people who adopted personally - but I was always sure that the bond is much more spiritual than phisical.
But I wonder what is your son's attitude to his birth mother? How do they communicate?
Does your husbend helps you alot with kids? What does it mean "I'm done" for him?)