The reason your hubby wants a child...

I was thinking about the reason why my husband wants to have a kid. You know, not all of man want kids, especially before they are 30... But we want more than anything. No metter he still is a kid - he want kid).

And one of my guesses is he just wants his toys back).

What about your hubby? What are theirs reasons?

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    11/07/13
    :)) I think it's a natural wish, even for husbands, to have a kid. Means he is ready to be a dad. One day my husband told me:" Catch a moment while you're young and healthy, and have enough energy to bring your kids up". My sister had her son at age 37, almost 38 and she is complaining about his hyperactivity and that he needs a lot of attention. The main reason, I think, is her age- of course, she is not old, but doesn't have that energy level any more.
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      11/08/13
      )) Lisa, it's true - all your words, as always.
      The way your husband think about it means he will play with baby alot - and with joy. I hope so).
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        oh Mara I had the same wish as you... Married and 2 kids before 28...
        I got married at 21, 6 years ago - so al is ok with this part of my dream). But with kids...
        And now I realise that my husband is still not ready for kids...
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          thanks for sharing, Gail! It's very nice of you that your son can meet with his biological mother. Is it the law, or it's your own choice? We know one family, who adapted a girl and she visits her biological dad and mom who live in a different state couple times a year. I don't know if I will be comfortable with a such idea...you know I would like to adapt, but I don't know about laws, so I'm trying to get as much info as possible from moms who have adapted children. I was thinking about international adaption, but not sure now.
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          Gail, thank you for sharing this amazing story...
          I'm really impressed. I dont know people who adopted personally - but I was always sure that the bond is much more spiritual than phisical.
          But I wonder what is your son's attitude to his birth mother? How do they communicate?
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          11/08/13
          Crystal, you are blessed with 2 kids - and hope God will bless you one more time).
          Does your husbend helps you alot with kids? What does it mean "I'm done" for him?)
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            Yes, my husband is my rock. He helps out tremendously with them. He comes home from a hard day and work and is always a "hands on" dad. My husband came from a family of 6 and I came from a family of 5. Perhaps it's me being selfish and wanting one more. I tell myself I want to go all natural with no drugs. My pastor's wife went to a birthing center and she had great results. I would want to do that too!!!! I think for right now my husband is burnt out on the kid subject b/c he works a lot and is tired all the time. I'm leaving things up to the Lord, if we have a 3rd third child it will be a blessing, but I'm also very grateful to have my 2 now, 1 boy and 1 girl. :)
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