Tips to break a child from being clingy and down right mean??

I will admit that I have spoiled my 3 year old! He was my last. I also had a lot of issues with that pregnancy and almost lost him when I was 5 months. He has gotten out of control lately always whining, hitting and just plain rude. I have tried time out and it doesn't work. It worked with my other 3 and I'm just at a loss. I even try ignoring him when he cries about being punished or not getting his way.

Thanks in advance

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4Halley StickleyHarrisonburg, Virginia
    05/06/14
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    05/06/14
    4Halley Stickley
    I have taken things like going to the store with me (because that's one of his favorite things to do) but no i haven't taken away toys or anything like that. I will give it a try and see how it works. Thanks!
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      05/06/14
      4Halley Stickley
      He REALLY enjoys going to the store with me and just recently started acting out in the store so I have taken that away from him. I have also not let him watch his favorite TV show in the mornings when he wakes up. But this is new so I don't know that it has worked yet.
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        05/06/14
        4Halley Stickley
        He does it with me but not as much as he does it with his dad. And he almost NEVER does it with other people.
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