Let me start from the beginning here. My parents divorced in 1989. Both remarried and my mom divorced her second husband somewhere between 1999-2001. My dad really wasn't part of our lives. We went 24 years without seeing him. We got a few phone calls over the years (maybe 20 total) around 2006 he found me on Facebook. I talked to him and my other sisters a few times. We exchanged phone numbers and I was getting to know the girls. Their mom had a problem with it so we stopped talking. Well my dad and their mom divorced at the beginning of the year and he moved back to louisiana. Now him and my mom are back together. It's definitely a lot to take in. He is trying to run my life. I am 30 years pls and married. He treats me like a kid. He calls my work everyday and talks to my boss to make sure I am there. My boss told me this yesterday. If I go visit my mother-in-law he calls her to make sure it's ok I go there and asks her how long I can stay there for. Right now my husband and I are living with my parents until we finish remodeling our house. I also have a cat and 2 baby turtles. My mom said she didn't want me to leave the turtles outside because of stray animals so we have them in the laundry room. They can't get out of the aquarium I have them in and last night one of them came up missing. My dad says she got out. There is no way. He told me he wants the turtles outside right before my female came up missing. I have talked to my mom about the whole situation and she says she is happy. I feel as long as she is happy that's all that matters, but he has been lying to her about a lot. And he also can't keep a job. He has been here 2 months and has had 4 jobs since. I'm sorry this post is so long I just had to get that off my mind. What should I do? Should I talk to her again or just leave it alone? She says she is happy but she doesn't seem like she is.