Aunts and uncles
Do your children have Aunts and uncles? How are they with your kids? My daughter has an uncle, my brother who is 22, he didn't really know what to do with her when she was just a tiny baby but now that she can walk and talk he's getting better about it. She also had my husbands brother and sister in law but they live far away so she doesn't get to see her much.
There's also a lot of great aunts and uncles, but yeah. :)